So Friday is always the dreaded day of every week. The kids are in school and my wife and I are at home together by ourselves because I work Mon-Thurs and she does not have a job. These are the days that she will decide to tell me how terrible her life is because of me.
So this past Friday she decides to tell me how it is my fault she does not have a career now and nowhere to go. She quit her job 16 years ago so she could go to school full time to become an Elementary Teacher. She then proceeded to not finish getting her degree because she was going to stay home to raise the kids. These were her decisions and I supported her in her decisions because it is what she wanted, now she blames me that she is unhappy in her marriage and has no career.
She can't stand being in the same house as me, but has nowhere to go. I actually left this past weekend for 2 days to "give her a break from me".
I am being a positive person through all of this and improving myself and it just irritates her more. I also work with my boys 2-3 times per week preparing them for life by going over life skills, life lessons, bible verses, ect for their benefit and this also just irritates her.
This is such a struggle to keep myself going in the right direction with the impending divorce.
Nick
H:44 W:43 M:17 S:15 S:14 S:12 W mentions divorce 8/2015 W files divorce 10/2016 D will be final 4/2017 Living together & will for a while