Am I in withdrawal ... will he ever wake up

[Lana_71]

Hi again... My mind still thinking... All through the marriage I never saw him apologizing for anyone. If he had an issue with anyone he just stops interaction until the relation dies... He is very social but with new crowd every couple of years..does not keep contact with old friends but also no fights so in case they meet up they usually on ok ground. He doesnot have a close fiend and his relationship with his brother is more competitive. The way he shows love is by act of service which he did a lot of them during our visit in August. I don't think he will ever contact me. One time he said when we were ther that he has lots of patience. But if he doesnot then the relation would not be balanced and surely would not be healthy...he has a very big ego. And willing to accept any consequences forced on him. That is how he sees it
. Would he ever wake up? I feel that will happen when all my feeling towards him fade..but I think it would be too late...would I want him in my lifethen