Don't take the words she's saying too literally. She wants to do what she wants to do. That is it. If you look for logic in her words you're going to drive yourself crazy.
Get a copy of DR and get a DB coach if at all possible. I know time zones make this challenging but it is your marriage at stake, well worth the trouble.
Post regularly and hang in until tomorrow. Don't do anything drastic, you have time on your side.
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
