MLC H at age 32, maybe single mum with a toddler S

[Zues126]

Maybe, sorry you're in this spot. Glad you moved to Newcomers. One good way to get replies is to read and post on others' threads as well. And we can all use support.

Can you go under your profile and add some of the highlights, like ages of you and WAH, years together and married, as well as the date of the bomb drop?

Also, curious about marriage history. Did this come totally out of the blue? What where the complaints of WAH that you said you neglected during the M?

Hang in. Get a copy of DR and read it asap. Also, don't cling to time lines like 90 days. I know you do this because you feel you can't endure this pain forever. You won't have to. But you have to do what you believe is right, even if it doesn't feel good today. If you can't do it, how can you expect him to? Keep standing and slow way down. You have the gift of time, and we're all standing behind you while you use it.