This much I know is true

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At today's Church service the pastor spoke about doing what is right and not just what we can get away with.

That to me is the crux of the issue. My W thinks that she can be herself finally and (I'm mind reading here) will be a better mother once she can be herself.

So should she stay in her MR because she should or because it's right.

I don't want her due to obligation - I want her because I made a promise to her (and she me) to be married till death...

So Blu - where is the line between Right and Should?