Struggling

[Steady9]

I agree with the others.... just do the acts. You can not blame them or point out their behaviors. You could say everyone is free to make their own choices..... And even though you are married, you do not own her and you are letting her go....

This way you are not blaming them... simply acknowledging they have the freedom to make their own choices....

I still struggle myself with this... My W made some choices.... I did not critique the choices.... just said she was was free to maker her own choices, I did not own her of course, and I said I was letting her go.....