Am I in withdrawal ... will he ever wake up

[Lana_71]

Hello exquisite ... I loved your remark ...this has been my motovthrough this journey and that is to be the best mom my kids can have . And believe me I am much better mom now than before three years ..I learned a lot and somehow focused on what's better. I decided what doesnot break me makes me stronger... was tough the first couple of months but when I focused on my kids things made sense. Then I focused on doing what is right. I did not want to engage in fights and blame. My aim was always that my kids needs a good father hence I will never trash him or lower his status in their eyes. I also focused on dealing with him and others respect based on values I want for my self and not based on what he deserved. I try to keep believing that good will prevail no matter what. I might be naive and I might be hit again but at least I feel peaceful inside . I am so happy to meet someone who think similarly will go today to your thread . Thanks again I loved your response... your kids are lucky to have you in their life.