I have a request.. we all know piecing is hard. Some of us do not want to stand any longer. Entering a new relationship is also hard. The goals are not the same anymore. We are not looking to save a unit that is no longer but we are trying to find someone who would be willing to finish the journey with us. It is not an easy road.. is there a thread on the subject? Is there references to help with fears and emotions related to dating after being out of the dating world for 20-30 years??