Hi Irish It is the first time I write for you... I have been reading your stitch for last couple of days as I am in a similar situation with my H leaving me and two girl with limited communication to no contact and doesnot feel did something wrong. It seems to be a long hard path you went on but wow you should be so proud of your girls ... I believe the response they gave to their mom was spot on. I hope one day she will figure a way to reach them with humility and regrets. I think she might be on her way but might take a while. i think our kids might be lucky not to see the details that MLC might be doing during this phase. So their disappearance might be blessing in disguise . The question i have and I think she is going around the bush to ask would you ever think of taking her back? What do you feel about her? Will you be able to forgive... might be too early to ask that but I guess something on my mind .
M 45 H 45 D1 12 D2 9 BD 04/14 Living two different state Not officially separated