Am I in withdrawal ... will he ever wake up

[Lana_71]

Hi exquisite
Thank you for reading my story and giving me great feedback. I am happy that I am able to give my kids the love they deserve. I usually contacted him for them thinking they don't deserve to be fatherless when their father is alive. But I guess anything I do will seem that him controlling. Trying to make him do what I want . Thanks for sharing your son story, I did consider sending the kids to him on the vacation maybe it will wake up some of his fatherly feelings. But then as you said might backfire . What good can come from hating their father .
I think now I got used to not checking msg and not expecting anything from him. I trust ,God brought me here for a reason and both me and kids are doing great. They don't ask about their father much and somehow they got used to him not available no more.