The A was allergedly over a week after the BD. And almost 5 months later she mentions separating and 2 weeks later here you are.
Looking at the timeline, it just doesn't look legit. Perhaps I'm way off base but, I don't think someone that mentioned separating a couple of weeks ago would be over anything enough to want to reconnect yet.
34, xw33 M-10, T-18 2D (8 and 5) Ilybinilwy-1/16 EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend) Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated) W moved out-8/16 W Filed 11/21/16 D final 1/30/17