Simple! You have admitted that you became the 3rd kid. Detaching is being able to be alone and do stuff for yourself. Being a big boy and not dependent on anyone else. Keep forging through. Her comments are promising. BD date was less than 2 weeks ago so I'm astonished she's noticed things since then. I'm not even sure I've changed underwear since then.....kindling kidding, I don't wear any.


34, xw33
M-10, T-18
2D (8 and 5)
Ilybinilwy-1/16
EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend)
Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated)
W moved out-8/16
W Filed 11/21/16
D final 1/30/17