WW Wife - Do I confront her?

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IMHO, one of the differences I have seen in the WW and the WAW, is a WW usually has a hidden agenda. Maybe it isn't completely hidden in some cases, but what I mean is that she either has another man waiting in the wings or she wants to live the singles lifestyle and powl. The WW is full of anger and disrespect toward the H. She is usually a manipulator and controller. Her selfishness separates her from what I see as the WAW who leaves for other reasons.

She had a man waiting in the wings alright. I know this for a fact and that she is in a PA with him. She is still hiding it. I only wish she wanted to live the single lifestyle for awhile. That would be a dream compared to this.

I know that if she would have been single and alone in this separation, things would be very different now and I might not even be on these boards. But since she is in a full blown PA, I have not stood a chance from the start and didn't know it.

She never had to be alone in all of this. She walked right out of our old house and into the arms of the OM. That is what seems so unfair sometimes. She didn't have to go through this the same way I am. I have a hard time coping with that and that is where resentment starts to build up.