Cherry. He's gone, and divorce is looking

[Surfer]

Cherry

Your IC will help. With the detachment though, TBH this comes from within, and only time and practice can help. Mainly time really. You just kind of recognise it happening TBH. Kind of like realising - oh, I don't seem to think so much about WS how weird. Almost too a kind of I don't give a sh!t too but not really because you do (bit weird). It's a nice feeling though I find you love them but you are almost impervious to their world in a way. IDK. Still have bumps but they seem rare now.

Might be worth talking with your IC about wider issues too? How you see you and previous Relationships etc. Don't forget An IC's opinion is just that. Sometimes to just talk and explore things helps you get it right in your mind. At times I think just posting on here is as good as anything. It's a very well educated forum on such matters.

I hope you are well this evening and your boy is happy and well too.

Surfer.