XW showing signs or just MLC script

[peacetoday]

Irish

She seems to be twisting it back on all of you and taking no responsibility for her part
because of guilt,,she can't fully face it, or she faces it and then slides quickly in denial

Maybe she could not feel love because of the way she feels about herself and her choices and her past(childhood)..It is not your fault or place to make her feel loved or lovable or she may not be clear of what love is-and expect someone to save her from herself-

She wants you to give her something that you can't..

You may want to keep your expectations low so you dont get sucked back in because she may come in and out for a while..touch and goes

and only time will tell how she lands and if she sticks with therapy or runs-
Therapy must also be very painful for her

She may also like to keep you by a string so you dont move on to fast- IDK



I can imagine that This is tough situation for you-
But you handle it well. Alternating Validating her and also some reality darts when needed-

I also get the sense that when you move away -she tries to pull you back-
hang in there and enjoy your night