No I don't want to stay in the friend zone which is why I haven't initiated any contact. Is that what you mean by shake things up? Taking my friendship away from her?
It's important that you detach. She needs to experience what life without you would be like if you weren't there as her best friend to catch her or console her. That you aren't willing to be her back up anymore.
34, xw33 M-10, T-18 2D (8 and 5) Ilybinilwy-1/16 EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend) Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated) W moved out-8/16 W Filed 11/21/16 D final 1/30/17