New to the Boards. Marriage in Crisis.

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I just said it feels like it because it was so abrupt so it hurts. We didn't have much contact throughout the day the past few days anyway, but she did text me here or there so not even a single text was unusual. I know it has only been one day so I'm not going to get discouraged.

Besides, this is the first weekend since the A was exposed that we haven't had our son so she of course is going to take full advantage of being able to spend the whole weekend with the OW and she certainly isn't going to be thinking about me while she's with her so I don't actually expect contact.

She's repeatedly said she doesn't want to lose me as her best friend no matter what so maybe NC will make her miss that. For that I'm hopeful.

Important to not get comfortable in the friend zone unless you plan to stay there forever. If you don't want to be her best friend and prefer to be her H again, you better shake things up!