Sorry to hijack but you said something that really resonates with my situation. My W feels that she now can be happy as she is now popular with a new community and she feels she is on her way to becoming a celebrity.
Our whole life together I've known about this desire for fame and external recognition. My hunch is it is a hunger that can never be satisfied. After speaking to a room of 50, you want to speak to 100 and so on and so on.
If any WW/WAW is looking for external validation etc for their happiness - when will it end or will it be a cycle/chase as we have you point out above?
Love to hear your thoughts.
M:50 W:53 MR:20 D:21 S:17 S:11 BD-Sept 2015 Suspected PA Sept 2015-Confronted W & OM Dec 2015 Actually EA In house Sep:Jan/16-May 2016 W moved out:May 22 2016 OM-Intro Oct/17-On scene July/Aug 2017