Well she knows I'm going out more, doing a lot more things on my own - went to a fireworks show last weekend and she was angry that I would never go with her but have now (we did go before but also used to have a dog that was petrified of fireworks and would tear the house up when we weren't there). She's also noticing and commenting on my weight loss.

I am trying to keep my distance and very rarely contact her (unless it's to do with our S). I've had a couple of wobbles but don't know really what her thoughts are as of late - other than a lot of anger!

I have always thought that she won't know what's gone whilst she's at her moms, but this next step is just that - another step away from the M....

...maybe that's what she needs to see what's been lost, or as Darkness says, maybe this is just further freedom for her. In the last 10 weeks though she has hardly been out and is going to be left with very little money after renting a place on her own.

It's almost like her life hasn't changed, aperture from the fact that I'm no longer a part of it.


M - 36 / W - 32
S - 3
Together - 18 Yrs / Married - 10 Yrs
Bomb Dropped - 4th Sept 2016
Moved out - 4th Sept 2016