Well I made it through the night with the help of a friend. I went to stay with her so I didn't sit at home dwelling on my W and the OW moving things along to a PA. I have made t pretty clear to my W that the ball is in her court by me not texting her so as of yesterday we've apparently entered NC as she usually texts a couple times a day and didn't yesterday. Currently at 27 hours of NC.
Because it has only been 1 day so far of NC I hesitate to panic or think she's given up. This weekend is the first weekend we don't have our son that's she's been free to spend as much time as wanted with the OW so I don't really expect any contact. I don't think I even cross her mind anymore, but as she's made it clear repeatedly that even if we end it she still very much so wants my friendship I am hopeful that as I revoke that friendship she will miss it.
Up until the last couple of days I have still been home every night and still doing nice things for her like rubbing her shoulders when she has a headache. Until Thursday night we even still snuggled in bed for comfort, but I will no longer initiate anything in hopes the gravity of what she is losing with me. I know that this may not be the case however and I'm trying to prepare myself for that.
If she continues to pull away from me as I distance myself should I try a new method?
Me: 35 W: 32 MR: 2y T: 3.5y SS11 BD: 11/3/16 EA: 10/26/16 PA: 11/11/16 W asks for S/D & ILYBINILWY 11/13/16 Status: I moved out 11/19/16, GAL I filed for D: 12/14/16 D-day: 3/10/17
