Far off goals are ok! Absolutely! But right now you are jumping steps. You can have a goal to run a marathon in a year from today but, if you never get off the coach from now until then, how do you expect it to happen?
You are on the coach. First thing is first is to sit up. Not to just close your eyes, tie your laces together and try to run a marathon.
Imho, your goals right now should be only about you. Also, you may want to look into the LRT
34, xw33 M-10, T-18 2D (8 and 5) Ilybinilwy-1/16 EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend) Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated) W moved out-8/16 W Filed 11/21/16 D final 1/30/17