Your new ic sounds good. And so do you Cherry.

Yes, it does sound like you're a fixer. Not surprising since most of us here are fixers. We're the ones trying to get help for our Ms/ ourselves.

The good thing about us fixers is that we get things done. The bad thing? We have a tendency to be martyrs.

It's true that your wh is on his own journey. You too are on your own journey.

Be well, Cherry. Thinking of you and your little ones.

You can call me Dory/ Grl.

As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!"

It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.