I think after reading so many of Sandi's post's over the last few months, there seems to be a MAJOR difference between a WAW and a WW. I think that the WAW is still a human. The WW is an alien. Like I said earlier, I thought that I was dealing with a WAW this whole time. Now that I know she is a WW. I know it doesn't change how I better myself and GAL, it just makes me pissed that my friendly and nice behavior towards her, probably make her sick and pushed her away even more.
MHO is that no matter what she is your actions are the same. Part of this is the detachment process and until you start it the whole script is kind of stuck. No use in crying over what you could have or should have done, worry about the future and what you ARE going to do. That is the part we can control.