Am I in withdrawal ... will he ever wake up

[Lana_71]

Hi , 40 days with no contact. Just some txt with his daughter before yesterday when she contacted him. I guess he never initiate contact neither with me or his kids or his family. When ever I used earlier ask him if he missed us and why he go s missing he replies my phone was on no one called. I sometimes feels he has twisted logic all the time. One day we were talking about the kids and his reply was I have to work and make them money later on if they want to talk to me or not that is their choice. I was astonished that he is willing to loose their love and respect without fighting. Anyway...I am planning to attend a Xmas destination wedding with my kids. I told him about it in August and invited him. Of course no reply. I usually do not travel with the kids without getting a written consent for airport issu Es. And sometimes to let him know. This time I plan to stay dark until he asks about our plans for Xmas. Looking how things go I guess he will not ask. Sometimes I think he is severely depressed or in withdrawal or maybe have a n affair and enjoying his life and would love if we are not in his life. How can a good person turn that way. He has none of his old friends. Everyone arround him is new that I don't know them.