I think that trying to figure out if she is this or that is a waste of time. The same approach needs to be taken which has nothing to do with her. Less talk, more action.
I think after reading so many of Sandi's post's over the last few months, there seems to be a MAJOR difference between a WAW and a WW. I think that the WAW is still a human. The WW is an alien. Like I said earlier, I thought that I was dealing with a WAW this whole time. Now that I know she is a WW. I know it doesn't change how I better myself and GAL, it just makes me pissed that my friendly and nice behavior towards her, probably make her sick and pushed her away even more.
Been there. Still catch myself. Doesn't matter though. Just be better today than u were yesterday. And better tomorrow than you were today. Be incredibly mindful that for the time being you cannot believe anything she says and about half of what she does. If she's being friendly, she probably wants something and knows how to handle you. Stop letting it control you. Be the change.
34, xw33 M-10, T-18 2D (8 and 5) Ilybinilwy-1/16 EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend) Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated) W moved out-8/16 W Filed 11/21/16 D final 1/30/17