where to begin or end?

[Rose888]

Ok, i understand what ur saying and ive read it in ur other posts. But in regards to kids and custody arrangement without any seperation or divorce filed. I have no leg to stand on. Like our current talks. I have no way to enforce, " The kids will spend the holidays in their home". Ive voiced my opinion. But beyond that... Currently we do a common 2-2-3,switch custody schedule. Any pointers would be nice. She didnt agree with my stance and i asked what she proposes? She hasnt proposed any of her own solutions, only wants me to put options out so she can shoot them down, is how it seems.

So, your position is that the kids should spend holidays in the marital home? Which means with you?

Am I misunderstanding?

I can't imagine too many 2-2-3 custody arrangements in which one parent gets all the holidays.

If you just stay with the current schedule, how do the holidays divide up this year?