Suggesting a therapist... I always looked at it like this: if it helps, great. If not, no loss either. He's already in a bad place. But at the heart of it, he's asking for help from somebody he thinks he can trust (deep deep down).
On your end, you have to decide if you want to be part of that or not. If you don't, he'll think you don't want to help or care. If you do and it goes wrong he'll blame you. If it does help, he'll give you credit at some point down the line. He may also find that it helps and then try to get back in a R with you and if that doesn't work for him (or he's not 'done' with MLC) then he'll thank you and blame you.
No rules on that one. Just your decision if you want to chime in or not. Try not to overthink it. It's a wash no matter how you look at it.
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
