Cherry. He's gone, and divorce is looking

[Cherry]

Met with a new IC today. He asked me what I wanted to achieve from my sessions, I admitted that I wasn't even sure. Maybe it's to get some peace or clarity. We went through a few things, and I gave him the back story on wh. He identified that I come across as a person who always wants to help others, maybe as a distraction or maybe I want to save people, but he said he felt that we need to focus on me and find out what makes me happy and start putting me first. This did reasonate with me, I do tend to feel guilty about seeing to my needs. From a db perspective, I think this agrees with it, as it's helping me improve me. He said that wh is on his own journey. I said how I'd become accept that.

All in all it was productive and gave me some things to think through. Other than that, nothing new to report really, I've been getting on with my own thing. Not seen or spoken to wh. He has the silence he wanted.