Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 6)

[JRuss]

FG -- I'd been asking to go for a long time, and she always resisted. Then, at the exact same time she told me she was moving out of MBR, she said she'd go if I found the MC. I never got too optimistic, even though she did seem to be fairly into it the first two times we went.

sandi2 -- you were and are spot on, I think. It's frustrating to be tied emotionally, and have kids with someone, who has that mindset. Not sure what anyone can do in those circumstances.