where to begin or end?

[jade]

Ok, i understand what ur saying and ive read it in ur other posts. But in regards to kids and custody arrangement without any seperation or divorce filed. I have no leg to stand on. Like our current talks. I have no way to enforce, " The kids will spend the holidays in their home". Ive voiced my opinion. But beyond that... Currently we do a common 2-2-3,switch custody schedule. Any pointers would be nice. She didnt agree with my stance and i asked what she proposes? She hasnt proposed any of her own solutions, only wants me to put options out so she can shoot them down, is how it seems.