It would seem that when a husband has "become awake" and goes to the WAW with solutions to try and save the M, she would be a lot more receptive to that offer. So that is what I was trying to do with that approach. Being caring and thoughtful was not something that I did very much in the M, so that was a 180 that I was implementing.
Im not sure this is really correct. This is changing for her. She is going to see this as 'too little, too late'. I think it's much better to change and let her notice rather than 'going to her'.
The problem here is your mindset. Your success or failure is based around her thoughts, actions, feelings, etc.
I agree that being a WW does change some things, but Im not sure that it really changes your path much.
Originally Posted By: Mr_Bam
I think that if I don't confront her and just drop the rope, she will get suspicious as to why I would all of a sudden disappear from that friendly relationship that we had. Maybe she would think that I found out about the A, but don't have the b@lls to confront her. IDK
So if she gets suspicious and asks you, then you can discuss it. But I think to make a 'grand stand' is a waste of your time.
