WW Wife - Do I confront her?

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I know a lot of what I am saying is more like "tactics" than true DBing. I do understand that. I think that I'm trying to do both at the same time and that is probably not very effective.

I think that question of weather or not to confront her has me frozen at the moment. That is why I posted here. It seems that almost everyone thinks that I should not confront her, mainly because you think that it will do more damage than good and that I am not truly ready to confront and let her go.

My head is spinning today.