Yes. - goal right now should have nothing to do with sex. She mentioned less than 2 weeks ago that she wants to separate and you are concerned with sex or physical anything?
I suspect the only reason she still kisses or hugs or anything is not because she enjoys or wants it but because she's pacifying you.
The "how can I make your day better" bit is im quite sure smothering to her as well.
Read more about detaching.
34, xw33 M-10, T-18 2D (8 and 5) Ilybinilwy-1/16 EA/PA- 7/15-present (with my former best friend) Trial apartment-2/16 (also when she considers us separated) W moved out-8/16 W Filed 11/21/16 D final 1/30/17