WW Wife - Do I confront her?

[Steady9]

Do not confront her...It is not the right time...

You have to be ready to let her go. When you are truly ready to let her go.... then she may reveal that she wants to stay.... and if she wants to stay and the A is going on that day.... then maybe a few days later or so, you can confront if she still wants to stay...that is, a few days after you let her go and she wants to stay.

I like the phrase let her go better than divorce which sounds like an ultimatum...

Also like the phrase when you are speaking to your spouse, you are free to make your own choices... being married does not mean I control you. You are free to make your own choices--and of course with out saying the words, the other person can make their own choices as well.