My problem here is that we are already separated. There are no consequences if I confront her, except me filing for D if she continues the A and I am not ready to do that.
A does not mean D unless that is your own boundary/circumstance on this. Also, I think that it's Cadet that writes this - a divorce is only a piece of paper and you only HAVE to give up on your MR when they pile dirt on top of you.
The rest are just the choices that we all make - some of us each and every day.
On BD H52, W50 T27, M26 S21, D23 BD-9-Mar-16 D-15-Jan-18 Final-19-Apr-18 I am a storyteller. The story may do you no good. But a story is never for the listener. It is always for the one who tells