WW Wife - Do I confront her?

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Originally Posted By: Mr_Bam
She has all the power now. I also think that she has no respect for me after the begging and pleading. If I confront her, I will lay down the bottom line. I will lay down boundaries about the OM and my kids.

What is the bottom line?

How would you lay down boundaries about the OM and your kids?

I am not unsympathetic, but you need to understand these actions before you jump into it. Unfortunately, once separation takes place, I think you lose your control about who she has at her house and/or who she decides to have around the kids (but you can check to see if you can get a RO or something). I suggest you get legal advice before your "boundaries" only succeeds as a joke. There may be something you could do about any adult male staying overnight or being alone with your children........IDK.

Did you sign a S agreement?

Sandi,

I think the "bottom line" would be that if she continues to choose the A over her marriage, then I will no longer be around for her in any capacity. This nice little friendship that we have will be over. She can send the kids out to the curb for exchanges and that's it.

The boundaries I was talking about would only be about the OM and my kids. I do not think that I have any legal rights, it would just be something that I would state to her. If she broke those boundaries, then you are right, there is not much that I can do. I have looked into RO for the OM, but I am not sure if it would apply.

We did not sign any legal separation documents. We have no guidelines with this separation.