Originally Posted By: darknes
Originally Posted By: Mr_Bam
Originally Posted By: darknes
Originally Posted By: Mr_Bam
She has all the power now. I also think that she has no respect for me after the begging and pleading. If I confront her, I will lay down the bottom line. I will lay down boundaries about the OM and my kids.


So what exactly do you think you will achieve?
What kind of "power" do you think you will gain?
What kind of "respect" do you think you will earn?

If your goal is to get her back, how do you know that this will move you closer to that goal?


I think that this is my problem. I don't "know" that this will bring me closer to my goal. That is why I am so confused.



Then I wouldnt do anything. If you dont know what the outcome will be, then theres no point in doing it.

What about those other three questions?


I am not sure anymore about the other 3 questions. I don't know if confronting her would create any positives at this point.


M-42
W-40
S-12
D-10
Together-13 years
Married-10 years
Separated-6/2016
ILYBINILWY-7/2016
EA-4/2016 (best guess)
PA-7/2016 (best guess)