WW Wife - Do I confront her?

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She has all the power now. I also think that she has no respect for me after the begging and pleading. If I confront her, I will lay down the bottom line. I will lay down boundaries about the OM and my kids.

So what exactly do you think you will achieve?
What kind of "power" do you think you will gain?
What kind of "respect" do you think you will earn?

If your goal is to get her back, how do you know that this will move you closer to that goal?

I think that this is my problem. I don't "know" that this will bring me closer to my goal. That is why I am so confused.