I've made my position very clear now and as mentioned above, told her that I no longer want her back. I don't know how much I believe this, but I certainly meant it at the time (my head is thinking one thing and my heart feels another).
Ugh....why say this kind of thing? If you cant commit to it 100% even here, then what good is saying it to her?
Your sitch is still so new. Focus on detaching and you...not on her. What you want will be revealed over time.
As for your other post, stop worrying about 'normalcy'. You seem to ask that a lot. It is what is is for you. Every situation is unique in some ways. And your feelings are what they are.
For me, I had really only sexually been with my ex, and for a few months after separating, I had a fairly low libido. Part of it was GALing as much as possible and wearing myself out, Im sure. In any case, when I first starting being intimate with my new partner, I had some amount of trouble for a week or so, but then things came back fine after that.
