Ok so after about a week of no fights and me starting to be calm and cool down I have been able to ease up things at home, had a disagreement because she wants to file for divorce right away, I thought it would be wise to wait until we sell the house so we can divide our assets accordingly, after a few strong words from Her I was able to convince her to do so, and after being set and done She said she felt lonely and that she felt no one was backing her up,on the other hand She claims I am moving along with my life (I keep getting texts from friends and I am going out frequently) and is telling me that in only a month I have seemed have gotten over it (which is not true, everyday is a struggle, I still cant sleep, eat or focus) after the discussion I offered to give her a leg massage to relieve stress which she agreed to, after we were done I hugged her and told her that no matter what I would be there for Her and kissed Her in Her forehead, we have been doing the same for the past few days with both a few minutes of prayer at night and in the morning every time we are finished I give Her a kiss in the forehead and a hug, this morning as I was leaving for work I came into Her room and she asked me if I had forgotten our prayer to which I answered No that is exactly what I was coming to do left and told her she was a great mom and a great woman, She is concerned with our D13 who is angry at Her for not trying to fix things, I just want an opinion from any of you Guys if what I am doing is correct, I must state that last week we hugged and kissed in the lips (not passionately) for a few days in the AM & PM until she told Me it was best if we didn't, can you Guys give Me some input and advise? I wish I could read Her mind I think I am getting mixed signals and I don't want to mess things up more than they are right now...
