give calculated chances...I've found giving everyone a second chance in online dating is energy draining and not very successful. People show you who they are very quickly and often the hard part is believing who they show themselves to be. I used to always excuse things and say "maybe it's this or maybe it's that" but I found what shows up initially is usually repeated or worse and it's draining and discouraging. So, good luck with it and remember, if the plumber turns out to be a turd, flush him fast lol!
