I always appreciate your input, WII, and I understand where you are coming from.
I don't intend to train him. I discussed this night and I think it's more showing others how we would like to be treated. I think it is just sort of his sense of humor which came off wrong, and I respect that he changed it after I communicated with him.
There is no deep attachment. I discussed that last night too. I tend to only give chance to those who I have deep attachment right off the bat with. That's not my fair to myself. Because that could come with getting to know someone. I know so many couples who thought eachother were a holes at first but then they got to know eachother and are happily married:)
I am also learning to date and build things. I'm either all in or all out, which isn't so healthy either.
After all this time, real dating is new to me. I don't need someone to take care of me, I live happy and independent, I'm not going to commit because I am needy and I'm scared of not having someone.
I'm just going to give people chances. If it's not working for me, I won't be sticking around. But who knows, maybe I will be pleasantly surprised.
