Newby here, desperate for some advice (thread 6)

[JRuss]

At one point yesterday she said "I've had to fake for years even wanting to hug him or show him any affection". It was incredibly revisionist -- there are just too many times where we were very passionate, and not that long ago. And she's not Meryl Streep. She couldn't fake it that well. But man is that painful to hear that sort of thing, and you just realize there is no way this would ever get pieced back together.

FG -- as always, I really appreciate your support. What a long, horrid road we're on. Hoping for better days for both of us.