I"m sorry (I'm Canadian I have to say that lol)...and I know I'm alone here, but why not find a guy who you don't feel you have to "train" right off the bat! I'm not sensing any deep attachment here from you so why not move your social experiment to guys who treat you with respect all the time whether texting or in person. I think you're being way to nice and playing with fire that you don't have to play with. OK, I'll just shut up now...but I say it 'cuz I care about you! Take it or leave it...oh, and did I say sorry already?
