Me and my 2 daughters

[peacetoday]

Irish

Wow.. a lot going on here

I am not a therapist nor expert in MLC but her messages do seem positive to me

I would continue to validate her if for nothing else to help her healing to forgive herself-
I would be available only if she contacts you and not immediately..because you are busy with your own new life

I might also give some thought to offering her a way to reconnect with all of you -when she is ready
like if she wanted to go to a therapist with you to discuss her issues and unhappiness you would support her either in her transition out or reconnection back-the reconnection back might be a friendship for now-AS long as she is clean and not using drugs-then its another issue ..I would just offer it up so its available--then let it go
she will have to do the work.you can't do it for her

that a reconnection is possible with the girls but it may require help and time

at the same time, I would also keep moving on with your life
if you are dating..or just making new friends--continue..she will feel the energy that you are moving on without you even saying it..

So if she wants to explore the options, she needs to move fast before you are settled somewhere else..If there is a way to verbalize this without being pushy or pursuing ..just factual-

Just my thoughts