I've begun to question myself over the last couple days, why am I fighting so much for someone who put us in this place and is not fighting for us. She left because she needs to find herself and I'm left to pick myself up. We'll that is becoming easier when I don't focus on her. I don't know if that is detaching but whatever it is, it's working.
Its a start. Think like an onion and you start peeling off layers.