I get what ur saying. And shes been following the script. Shes the one who left the home for space to be with him, shes the wanting divorce, she was nice until i confronted his wife and parents. Blowing up her lies. Since then i have been enemy number 1. She has not tried any 'if you love me or want this to work' tricks. I feel that every spiteful act is aimed at pushing me to the limit so i file, or snap. I have been very amicable throughout this all and it seems to only make her angrier!
The selfishness, does that subside? Is this who id possibly be with forever?
Regarding previous EA, we lived together and owned our own house, she obviously cant handle close male friendships. Im not sure how it died but it lasted under 6 months, and they continued working together. I think she realized he was only playing her for possible sex, and once she gave him the just friends speech he started disrespecting her at work and she began to dislike him, and eventually hated the job and quit few years later. Im not sure how i won her over that time
BH:30 WW:30 T:12 M:5 D7 S4 BD 7-28-16 S 8-28-16 3-15-17 wife filed 3-17-17 OM joint files with his wife