Ok, so this is new....

I'm struggling this morning with the loss of the physical relationship. This was always a big thing for me (possibly more so than my W), but we had a good sex life.

I've struggled for so long with the emotional side of loss, but suddenly now the loss of the physical R seems to be a big loss.

Is it normal that these feelings would come later than the feelings for emotions?...

Any advice would be greatly appreciated ladies and gents.


M - 36 / W - 32
S - 3
Together - 18 Yrs / Married - 10 Yrs
Bomb Dropped - 4th Sept 2016
Moved out - 4th Sept 2016