New to the 180. Help?

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My husband called today. Hes been relieved from his job as an instructor, assigned to a restricted position, a formal investigation is under way and he called me to basically tell me what to say to prevent him from getting a dishonorable discharge which would more or less ruin his life--all because of his horrible decisions.

I know in his head he is blaming the [censored] out of me because I was the one who said something. What a mess.