Am I in withdrawal ... will he ever wake up

[Lana_71]

Hi job
Thanks for the dance pursuit thread. It was shocking to see how much of a text book purser I am and distances he is. I kept gaining him excuses feelin he might be depresses on his own and need help. Although it might be true but he has to deal witty that in order to return to us, if ever. I always pushed him and the kids to maintain some contact together now for the last month I don't if he wants his kids he can initiate his own contact, if not well tough luck. He is a mature man reponsible for his actions. And if people later on don't give him the attention he wants then it is a result of his action. He sometimes complains that he does a lot to people but they don't act accordingly.well not my problem any more. My relation with my kids is great although we live at myparents house but they feel the love from the whole family. That was a main reason I came back. It is not my love they have, the have their grandma ho is spoiling to them and a big extended family. After his abandoning us I felt we all need my family. I got a part time job but since moving back my bills are much reduced. I am so great full to God for giving me the strength to move forward and provide the best situatio for my kids in spite of the circumstances he put us through.